Calm and strong. This is one of the most decent men I know – and resilient as hell. We met at Bryant Jr. High School in the 1970s, went to Central High and spent a lot of time together in college. Stood up at my wedding 32 years ago. Parole Officer by day. Coach to young people, and so much more. You can smell the Paul Sebastian when he walks in the room and his smile and warmth will make your day.